Real talk I only started to value my relationship when Kay Kay stopped putting stipulations on me. As a young man my natural instinct was to rebel in an attempt to show that I will not be controlled, which led me to make spiteful decisions neither of us would benefit from. Feeling stifled made me a slave to my own ego. I learned over time that that ultimately has no reward. . Failures in other aspects of my life taught me to decipher the difference between being a PARTNER IN LOVE and being a PRISONER IN LOVE. Once I understood the difference I moved different. I became deliberate with my actions in showing that I WANT to be with her— as opposed to being reactive to her demands because I just didn’t want her to be with someone else. DEAD ASS! . DEAD ASS PODCAST EPISODE 25 OUT NOW! LINK IN BIO! . #DevalesTruth #TheEllises #DeadAssPodcast #BestFriends #Lovers #Parents #BusinessPartners #BuildAnEmpire #LeaveALegacy #MillennialMarriage

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